“You might not be good looking but you can look good.”—Good Looking Loser
No B.S. Wealth Attraction in the New Economy by Dan Kennedy is a real eye opener. Though aimed at money, the principles he lays out in the book can be applied to dating, getting into shape, getting a big dick, or attracting any type of success a person could want. In today’s article, I am going review the introduction to this book and discuss three tips he reveals in the introduction alone.
Unfortunately, when people talk about attraction they generally think about being genetically good looking, having a good fashion, or a combination of the two. These are elements of attraction but not the whole picture. Also, most people are trying to become attractive in order to get with the opposite sex. Sexual partners, however, are not the only thing you can attract into your life. You can attract financial opportunities into your life. In fact, all outcomes you can think of you can attract into you life.
First thing first, every one is attractive. But are you attracting good results or bad results into your life? This is actually the question people are wrestling with. Let ask some questions.
Are you attracting the type of sexual partners that you want?
Are you attracting the type of financial opportunities that you want?
Are you attracting the type of health benefits that you want?
For me the answers are:
Could be Better.
No.
Yes.
But can we turns all those Nos into Yeses?
So how do we become attractive to the things we want?
- First, we need to change our attitudes and thinking about the world.
Do you see the opposite sex as evil? Or do you see them as different, beautiful but flawed? - Do you believe the system is stacked against you? Or do you think you need to learn a few new skills to unlock wealth?
- Do you think you are too old, or young, to start caring about your health? Or do believe health is your top priority?
Second, we need to change where change where we are putting our time and effort into.
Do spend Friday nights watching porn? Or are you out, introducing yourself to people?- Are you watching YouTube or Netflix? Or are you practicing new skills to make yourself more valuable?
- Are you playing video games every day? Or are you in the gym every day?
Third, we need to change our daily habits.
Do you avoid talking to the opposite sex? Or do you introduce yourself every chance you get?- Are you always late to work 15 minutes? Or are you always early 15 minutes?
- Is your diet saturated with sugars and fried foods? Or do you eat mainly protein and vegetables everyday?
By just comparing these questions to one another, you can see how some people attract success while others repel it. But let’s get into some real life actions you can do, today, to start building attraction. Here are the three tips.
Tip # 1: Show Proof
believe women understand this tactic more than men. Women dolling themselves up is showing proof that they are beautiful. Women want to attract attention so they show the world they are beautiful. Men want to show that they lift and eat well so they go shirtless. The financial firm wants to show they are good at investing so they show their earnings. A company wants to show their product works so they show a study. A gym bro wants to show the diet plan he used work so he shows before and after photos.
Most people are full of shit. Most people know this. That is why one of the most attractive things you can do is show proof.
- Show women pictures of you with other women. This is proof that you are a guy women want.
- Show testimonials or studies that your product or service works.
- Show before and after pictures of your weight loss or muscle building journey.
Showing proof of your achievements and progress will attract good things into your life. If it didn’t than the most successful people and companies wouldn’t do it.
Tip # 2: Embrace pain
Success lives in the sea of discomfort and pain. Sadly, 80% of people flee from the slightest of discomfort. They won’t even dip their toe into the water. Dan Kennedy (whose book I am referencing) once said that the more pain you can tolerate the more money you will make. The same goes for women. The same goes for getting a 6-pack.
- Telling a girl she is beautiful and asking for her name is uncomfortable.
- Making sells calls is uncomfortable. Doing it 12 hours straight is painful.
- Waking up at 4 in the morning, lifting heavy weights, then eating light all day is painful.
- Wearing a penis extender 4-12 hours a day is uncomfortable.
Attracting success can be uncomfortable or even painful, but the reward ALWAYS outweighs the pain.
Tip # 3: Embrace the weird
Success is weird and is attracted to weirdness. Look at Elon Musk. He is an odd gentlemen; he is also a trillionaire. Most people believe that they can get extraordinary results with ordinary means. I wish life worked this way. It would save so many people from disappointment. But an extraordinary life demands you be weird. By weird, I don’t mean doing something immoral—I mean doing the stuff other people refuse to do.
Showing a girl pictures of other girls who’ve been with is weird.- Reading business books and working 12 hours a day, 7 days a week is considered weird.
- Not drinking alcohol is considered weird.
- Wearing penis extenders and penis-pumping is considered weird.
- Showing dick pics is weird.
I wore this hat out and got three compliments. It is a little weird, but people like it. Embrace the weird.
This week’s assignment
I’d like to end this article with a metaphor. Success is a beautiful woman, and we are trying to attract and seduce her. To help us get started with this seduction, I am going to recommend some practices.
- Start collecting proof about your accomplishments. Pictures, videos, testimonials. Even if it is just for your hobby, do it.
- Pick something uncomfortable to do this week and do it.
- Each person has a little weirdness. Whatever it is, start embracing it.
I hope this article gives you guys some insights and ideas to start achieving the life that you want.
Stay pumped my brothers,
—O.J. Light.